Kailua Kona, Hawaii, United States
A private retreat in Hawaiʻi, shaped around you, with your own accommodation, a personal host, and space to focus on your next chapter. Whether you’re navigating heartbreak, divorce, burnout, or patterns you’re ready to change, The Rebuild combines dedicated coaching, restorative wellness, and island exploration.
Your experience begins before you arrive, with a personal planning call and a Life Trap questionnaire to help us explore recurring patterns in your thoughts, relationships, and behavior. Together, we’ll shape your itinerary around your intentions, interests, and pace.
Each of your four full retreat days includes a dedicated 60-minute coaching session with Cinderella. Your included Rebuild Workbook provides reflection prompts and practical exercises across six modules:
- Grief, Change & Core Values: Acknowledge what you’re moving through, reconnect with what matters, and clarify the values you want to live by. - Emotional Awareness & Nervous System Regulation: Understand your triggers, recognize your stress responses, and practice responding to difficult emotions with greater awareness. - Unlearning Old Patterns: Explore familiar beliefs, behaviors, and life traps, and connect with the person you want to become. - Neural Rewiring & New Responses: Use visualization, reflection, and body-based exercises to practice different responses to familiar challenges. - Your Five Pillars & Non-Negotiables: Identify the foundations of your wellbeing, build supportive routines, and clarify your boundaries and relationship needs. - Inner Balance & Self-Love: Explore the balance between action and rest, giving and receiving, with space for creativity, movement, and celebration.
We’ll select and combine material from these modules into four personalized coaching sessions, allowing depth without rushing through every chapter. Your workbook stays with you to continue exploring and practicing at home.
Alongside coaching, your days include restorative practices and opportunities to enjoy the island. Your customized itinerary may draw from:
- Restorative wellness: Meditation, sound healing, gentle breathwork, Qigong, yoga, or dance. - The Kona coast: Ocean swims, coastal walks, scenic viewpoints, and time watching the sunset. - Island exploration: Visits to places such as Kaloko-Honokōhau or Puʻuhonua o Hōnaunau, with snorkeling opportunities when conditions allow. - An extended adventure: A day shaped around selected waterfalls near Hilo or Hawaiʻi Volcanoes National Park. - Local connection: Cafés, shared meals, and optional community experiences when schedules align.
These are possibilities rather than a checklist. Together, we’ll choose a realistic balance of coaching, exploration, and rest. Locations depend on weather, access, and availability; specialist excursions and any paid upgrades are agreed in advance.
At the heart of The Rebuild is your connection with Cinderella. Her approach blends intuitive presence, honest conversation, energy work, and grounded guidance. Insights may emerge during a focused session, while walking beside the ocean, or over a relaxed meal.
Cinderella stays separately and joins you for scheduled sessions and outings. You’ll also have private time to rest, journal, and let your experiences settle. Come with curiosity and a willingness to explore. Leave with a clearer understanding of your patterns, what matters to you, and practical next steps for the life you want to build.
Trip Length
Full Immersion (6-8 days)
Travelers
1 spot available
Trip Type
Wellness Retreat, Meditation & Mindfulness, Yoga & Movement, Adventure & Outdoor, Personal Growth
Dates
23 Dec 2026 – 28 Dec 2026

This trip is provided by
Cinderella de Groot2 trips listed
Alcohol-Free by Design
The Sacred Reset is intentionally alcohol-free, creating space for rest, clear presence, meaningful connection, and personal reflection. All hosted sessions, meals, and excursions are alcohol-free, with water, tea, and refreshing non-alcoholic options available during our time together. Your experience centers on restorative practices, ocean time, nature, and thoughtful one-to-one guidance. There is no pressure to explain why you’re choosing an alcohol-free experience. Guests are expected to remain sober throughout the retreat, including independent time, in keeping with Dry Tripping’s standards. Your accommodation is separate from your host, and hotels or public venues may serve alcohol to other visitors; this is not a continuously supervised or fully controlled environment. All sessions require sober, unimpaired participation. This retreat offers wellness and personal growth support, rather than addiction treatment or supervised recovery care.
Begin with breakfast before meeting Cinderella for your dedicated 60-minute coaching session, exploring a personalized theme from your workbook. A restorative practice, such as meditation, breathwork, gentle movement, or sound healing, supports the morning’s work. Timing may shift when an activity calls for an earlier start.
Pause for a relaxed lunch and time to let the morning’s insights settle. We’ll leave room to rest, journal, or simply enjoy your surroundings before moving into the afternoon’s experience.
Explore the island together through an activity chosen around your interests: an ocean swim, coastal walk, snorkeling, a cultural site visit, or a scenic outing. Extended adventure days follow a different rhythm, with your coaching session scheduled accordingly.
For women ready to understand old patterns, reconnect with what matters, and take intentional steps into their next chapter. You may be navigating heartbreak, divorce, burnout, or a change in direction. This private retreat suits women seeking dedicated one-to-one coaching, practical exercises, and space to reflect—alongside restorative wellness and island exploration. No previous coaching or wellness experience is needed. Come with a willingness to explore your thoughts and behaviors and try new approaches at your own pace. Each full retreat day includes a focused coaching module using your workbook, balanced with guided experiences and independent time. This is an alcohol-free stay for solo women who value personal attention, privacy, and a supportive approach to change.
Your Rebuild retreat includes five nights in a private studio or one-bedroom accommodation in the Kona area, exclusively yours throughout your stay. The specific property is selected for your dates, with privacy, location, and convenience in mind. Property details will be shared before arrival. Ocean views, pools, and resort amenities are not guaranteed. Optional accommodation upgrades or add-on excursions may be requested for an additional charge, subject to availability. Any additional cost will be agreed before the upgrade is arranged.
Accommodation is included in this trip.
All Meals
Dining style
Dietary options
Flights, travel insurance, personal purchases, and transport outside the agreed itinerary are not included. Optional paid tours, equipment rentals, spa treatments, and additional hosting hours cost extra unless specified in your package. Any extras are agreed in advance. Airport transfers are included for Kona Airport (KOA) only.
| Timing | Refund Policy |
|---|---|
| 48 hours after booking | 100% refund including deposit |
| After 48 hours | deposit non-refundable |
| 61+ days before departure | remaining payments refunded 100% |
| 31–60 days | remaining payments refunded 50% |
| 30 days or less | no refund |
Cinderella de Groot
I’m Cinderella de Groot, founder of Femme Flow®. I create retreats and experiences that blend somatic movement, dance, breathwork, meditation, and sound healing. My work supports women navigating life transitions, offering space to slow down, reconnect with their bodies, and move forward with clarity and self-trust. Expect meaningful connection, grounded practices, and room for joy.
I’m Cinderella de Groot, creator of FemmeFlow, a transformational coach and polyvagal therapy practitioner certified in energy healing. I’ve guided healing retreats in California, facilitated dance retreats in Puerto Rico, and owned a tourism business for seven years. For several years, I’ve coached women through the Rebuild Method, drawing on neuroscience and psychology to explore old patterns and practice new responses. I blend nervous system regulation, breathwork, sound healing, meditation, and movement with intuitive guidance. My retreats balance personal growth, relaxation and joy.

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A personal welcome gift, The Rebuild Workbook, and one 45-minute follow-up call within a month of returning home. Thoughtful touches to help you carry a little of your reset into everyday life. Transfers between Kona International Airport (KOA) and your accommodation are included when the journey can take place entirely between 9 a.m. and 4 p.m. Hawaiʻi time.
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